While watching a tv show, it showed in the episode where a man who recently got married never gave up his old apartment. Without his wifes knowledge, he kept his old place. Now, based on the city that this show is set in, the location of the apartment, and the size/quality of it, I am guessing this apartment to be around $1200 per month, probably more.
NOW, for the question. WOULD your husband/so/bf be able to hide the fact that he was spending over $1200 per month from you? Do you have that kind of disposable income that it would go unnoticed?
Since everyone keeps asking, the show we were watching was Dexter, season 4.