I am not going to beg my children to come with me when I leave my husband
And no I dont feel bad about it. If they want to move with me they will if not they will stay with their dad. Apparently this means I am the worst mother in the world. My husband and I are just not working out. We have a ton of issues, we fight all the time, and neither one of us are happy.
I have been putting plans in place to move out and file. I was telling my sister and she asked what I was going to about the kids. I told her it was going to be up to them. I am not going to force them to "pick sides" they can move to my new house or they can stay with their dad it will be up to them. They are 16, 17, and 17 so even if I tried to beg them to come with me it is legally up to them anyway. Of course I would love it if theym came with me part of the time at least but even not I will still find time to see them. They are all almost adults anyway capable of making their own decisions.