I never had a baby shower and I have two kids. Why? Because I have no one to really invite to it, I have some people I went to HS with and we talk on FB and all but that's about it. I really don't have any 'real life' friends outside of facebook and a few very nice moms on here. My dh's family are horrible people so we don't speak to them at all and I really don't have any close family that cares enough to come. I always wanted to experience a baby shower and all of the joy that comes with it but it looks like I never will.