did you/will you preach abstinence until marriage to you kids? If so did you wait until marriage?
I did not wait until marriage but will encourage them to wait until marriage.
One of my friends told me that she told her 13 year old DD that she needs to "test drive" the man before marrying him because if she doesn't then she could get stuck with a guy that is bad in bed. The fact that she did that really surprised me, especially since they seem like a very conservative family. Maybe she's speaking from personal experience...
I personally would never tell my kids that and am telling them I think they should wait even though we didn't.