my exhusband is talking bad about me to my kids. HELP
I have been divorced since September 2013 after being married for 9 years. We currently retain EOW custody of our two kids ages 6 and 2 and up until now he's been agreeable. Lately my oldest has been coming home asking me why daddy keeps calling mommy a "bitch" and saying that I am "worthless" she doesn't know what those words mean but she understands that the word bitch is not only derogatory but a word she shouldn't say in the first place (she whispered it in my ear). I called my exdh and asked him what was going on and he started LAUGHING saying that she was just taking things out of context.
Well they were over there last weekend and I stumbled upon his gf's Twitter account and I was shocked. I screen capped them in case later we go to court or anything of the like. She called me a "stupid fucking worthless cunt of a mother" and went on about how she's a better mother than I will ever be. It's really starting to irritate me but I have no ground to stand on. I can't just say "hey stop talking shit" because they are adults and have the right to say whatever they wish. I just want them to stop telling the KIDS. They are just kids, regardless of my feelings towards my ex they are part of him and bad-mouthing him in front of the kids tells them in a way that part of them is bad too. I just want the same respect!