so I was asked by an older relative of my DH to have a baby for him -- secretly. He is married but never had kids. We'd come over once a month minimum and visit, just as family, child would never know who his father was, would think DH was his father. DH would think the kid was his.
Relative would pay a one-time lump sum in advance. Nothing else provided.
WWYD? It's not really enough to raise the kid for 18 years, would buy a cheap house out in the sticks.