My boyfriend and I have been dating for a couple years and we are discussing marriage and moving in together. The problem is the nanny he and his ex wife have. They have had this nanny for 10 years and now that both children are in school I think its time for them to let her go and for the kids to go to a daycare. I don't believe in nannies because so many turn out to be abusive plus I don't want someone in my house when I'm not here. I called my kids daycare and they have openings for his kids so how do I bring it up? How do I tell him my kids and I can't move in until he gets rid of the nanny?