Im getting married this spring. My fiancé is refusing to sign a PN. I own my home, 5 cottage homes and my wood working business. Id like to keep my current assests seperate from our marriage, but I have no problem using the money they earn for our household. My fiancé only has his car and a little in 401k. My total is a little over 275k and his is only 35k..... so you can see why I want to keep it separate. I worked hard and spent a lot of time away from my son and missed out on so much of his childhood to build a future for him. Im worried that it will all be for nothing if we split. Anything we buy and growth in my business will be shared in a split, but I really want to keep what I'm going in with. How can I get him to agree to this?