The first time I met my DH's ex wife she told me she hoped I liked cleaning up after him and doing everything in the house.
That has NEVER been the case. We both work full time. We both cook, clean, take care of kids, mow, and whatever else. In fact...lately he has been doing way more because I had surgery. I don't have to ask him to do anything. He sees something that needs doing and he does it. He interacts with all of the kids...his, mine, and ours. Something else she said he never did. His kids have always been super close to him.
She was a SAHM so I would think she would take care of the home.
But I just think it is funny that she thought she needed to warn me. We work well as a team. I don't see it changing. It has been four years.
Anyone else ever get a warning from their DH's ex?