If you're a sahm your dh can treat you like a doormat because you don't pay the bills!!
I just saw a woman in another post tell a sahm that she basically has to be a doormat for her dh and not stand up for herself because she doesn't pay the bills. He can disregard her feelings, but she can't disregard his because he pays the bills! I am not even a sahm and I call bs on that!! No ONE has the right to treat another like a doormat and no one has to accept being treated like a doormat!