I am getting a divorce and I have to move so that I can work a decent paying job. I was awarded custody by the judge but neither of my two kids (ages 7 and 9) want to change schools or move to another house.
My exdh is a good father. I would only have the kids on some weekends though (they also stay at friend's on some weekends) , half holidays and half summers. I can go to any baseball, dance recital, music whatever.