I need help please, of the emotional kind. I've been married for the past year and 5 months. Things aren't horrid but they never were peachy. Depsite all the crap we've had I adore and love my husband and I am so happy to be having his baby. Problem is I don't think he feels the same. Our love life hasn't suffered but I feel like his just not there anymore. We moved into a granny cottage on someone's property and we have pretty pesky neighbours, one of whom was VERY friendly at first, til she started getting to familiar and calling me out on personal things in company (something I am dead against). I told her very politely where to get off and last week I started getting calls, being told my husband is screwing around and that I make him unhappy, this after her and I had an argument when I mentioned I'm looking for another place to stay cause we currently don't have enough room to swing a cat, let alone a baby. She took off with me and told me I'm going to make a horrid mother and I'm a shitty wife cause I never consider his needs. This made me think and I confronted DH about it and he said she has no idea what she's on about and that I should leave it. This past weekend she kinda threw it in my face how he still has conversations with her and when I spoke to him about it he told me flat out that he wouldn't side with anyone.
I feel horrificaly alone and I don't want to get my family involved cause seriously my mum and sisters will be that vindictive towards him that they won't allow him to see or be part of our baby's life. My blood pressure is very high too and I'm scared I'm doing more harm than good with my emotional state right now