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Are fathers victims of abortion?

Anonymous
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If a woman has an abortion, but the father wants to raise the child, is he a victim?

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 28, 2014 at 1:41 AM
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laranadtony
by Ruby Member on Jan. 28, 2014 at 1:43 AM
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Doesn't there have to be a crime for there to be a victim?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 28, 2014 at 1:44 AM
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Of course he's a victim. That baby is half of his DNA and he should be able to raise his child. It's sad that dads don't get a say in the life of their children.
SaraA_1989
by on Jan. 28, 2014 at 1:45 AM
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When he has a uterus he can carry his own offspring.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 28, 2014 at 1:45 AM
I don't know if you'd call them a victim, but my friends girlfriend had an abortion without telling him. It broke him he wanted a baby so bad. It took him a long time to trust women again.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 28, 2014 at 1:45 AM
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Yes! Fathers should be able to have a say in what happens to their children.
Jennkmom4
by Bronze Member on Jan. 28, 2014 at 1:46 AM
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I believe he is...he has to miss out on his child for her choice. Very sad.
Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Jan. 28, 2014 at 1:47 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 28, 2014 at 1:51 AM
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There are two victims to every abortion, but only one survives.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 28, 2014 at 1:53 AM
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Some men really are unfeeling louts who don't care about their offspring, but the law still holds them responsible for the support of their children.  But what about the father who fervently wants his unborn child to live? Does he have the right to stop the mother from having an abortion? No. So, then, fathers have to pay child support, but have no say in the abortion decision. This is a glaring problem and it should be solved. Why shouldn't the mother just deliver the baby, even if she doesn't want to keep it, and then turn it over to the father, who does love it and who wants to raise it?

.PinkHart.
by Ruby Member on Jan. 28, 2014 at 1:54 AM
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Of course. Dh's ex wife got an abortion on a baby he desperately wanted. Three years later it still hurts him.
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