My dd had been cutting. I got some great advice from you ladies before and would love it if you could help me out again. We are in counseling note to help with this and some other issues. Or counselor has given us homework to do body checks every other day.. I am to have my dd step down to her bra and underwear and remind her that I'm doing this because I wasn't her to love and honor her body. I understand the concept but I'm struggling with how affective this will be. I feel like I'm turning my dd into a freak show by putting her though this. I had major issues with my mom not respecting my boundaries as a teen, I know this has influenced my reaction to the homework
So ladies, would you or did you find benefit to having your mom do body checks? Is this helpful long term? If you are or were a cutter and had somebody that would go to the end of the earth to help you what would you have them do?