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would you let them go?

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I woke up this morning to an email from my ex husband asking if he could take our kids to Jamaica. Him and his fiance want to get married there in 2015. He is asking now because the kids will need passports. The kids are 9 and 7. Part of me says no no no. I dont want my babies that far away. Part of me says do it because I might want to take them out of the country some day

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2014 at 7:49 AM
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by Grammar Enthusiast on Jan. 29, 2014 at 3:58 PM
Just go with the them. That's what I'd do.
by Ruby Member on Jan. 29, 2014 at 4:01 PM

I would not only say no, but hell no.

by on Jan. 29, 2014 at 4:10 PM

I would let them go.

by Silver Member on Jan. 29, 2014 at 4:16 PM
In your case yes. In mine, no.
by on Jan. 29, 2014 at 4:38 PM

 I've been there. And I wouldn't go again. I went with my husband for his brothers wedding. You fly forever to get there, then you take a shitty as bus about 3 hours to get to the resorts. And the roads are wide enough for one car, yet the squeeze it into two lanes, they have NO traffic laws, and we saw one man walking in the road get his head ran over because they drive like there is no tomorrow. I was so scared the entire ride.\

Then once on the resort, fear set in even more. THe locals aren't allowed on the resort, yet they come up to the beach area in boats, and push hard to sale you drugs or even women!

Definately NOTa place I would ever return to, nor would i allow my young kids to go

by Anonymous 32 on Jan. 29, 2014 at 6:20 PM
Quoting Lullababy: Why?

Quoting Anonymous:
Quoting Lullababy: Your husband isn't allowed to leave the state with his kids? How come?

Quoting Anonymous: I'd be going with my kids. I don't let my dh take the kids out of state alone.
no he's not. I do not let them get info the car with him without me if I can help it.
I have my reasons. It's not safe.
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