ive been dating this guy now for almost 7 months, and im madly in love with him, hes perfect in everyway everything i have always dreamed of having but never truly finding until now. and i believe he feels the same way. well in the beginning of november of last year he went through some tough times, he was a avp for a financial insitution and was laid off after 10 years of employment, luckily he is somewhat getting by with a partitme second job he already had and the little unemployment he is recieveing. not only this but he had to move out of his apartment, and in with family. so to say the least he was very upset.
well for almost the whole month we went without speaking (in this month jan) i was heartbroken he wouldnt respond to my calls or messages and i gave up.. well he reached out to me about 3 days ago now and apologized for his distance telling me that he had so much going on and on top of it all he has fallen in love with me and he felt it all to be overwhelming and he was ashamed and embarrassed with his personal issues, that he though distancing himself would avoid me from having to deal with his problems. he begged me for another oppurtunity to be back in my life again. (hes now landed a new job and will be moving end of feb)
so i of course want to give this to him because hes so good to me. BUT my friend who is a guy swears up and down he thinks its all bull and that he is just now calling me to have "sex" and then he will disappear again. but i dont feel that about him wdyt?