While he was unemployed we couldn't pay all of our bills and we are trying to play catch up with those as well. Again I have no problem with that either. Shit happens.
What I have a problem with is that he promised his ex he would pay back what he owed her out of his first two paychecks. That means when it was all said and done he gave her more than one of his paychecks for the month of January, leaving us further in debt
I tried to explain to him that we needed to pay her back over 3-4 paychecks so that we could still pay our rent but he still went ahead and paid her.
One of the agreements was that he is supposed to pay for their school breakfasts and lunches. Neither one of them put a limit on what the kids get and they buy things a la cart so they each spend 10-15 a day between breakfast and lunch. I asked him to buy some frozen waffles and cereal and milk and take it to her house and have the kids eat breakfast there for a month until we catch up on bills and that he needs to tell then they need to eat the plate lunch and no extras again for a month until we catch up on bills and he said he wasn't going to make the kids suffer because he lost his job and then put 200 on each account!
We can't pay rent now and I explained that before he added money to their accounts. I get paid this Friday but it doesn't cover our rent. I'm so pissed and hurt and I think I'm done with him. I just can't live like this anymore.