my ex fil kept me in his will and now ex and family are pissed.
id shrugged off how my ex fil said he was keeping me in his will despite his son walking out on me, that he loved me and my girls that my girls (from my 1st marriage) were the closest thing to grandkids he had.
silly me i just thought whatever with the will thing, thats just talk people say. well it wasnt talk. and he passed away earlier this month.
he and his daughter were not that close, their mom bashed alot about their dad, snide comments all the time even years later after they had divorced, pretty much poisoning his sister against their dad, ex also said before he felt like he had to choose between his mom and dad. most the time her and her dad were not speaking even, really was not things he said or did at all, she would blow him off alot, leave him hanging yet if there was money just accept it and go. at times he was so frustrated he spoke of cutting her out of his will because she just didnt put much of any effort into a relationship with him despite his trying so hard. id told him not to be hastey that it was a big move to do that. well aparently last few years when he was revising his will even after me and his son divorced, he finnaly did cut out his daughter.
aparently according to ex, his mom and his sister, his sister reconciled with him like 2 weeks before he died seeing and talking with him at christmas. and then he got really sick and they didnt know and he suddenly died. he had heart failure and copd.... ex said he had moved in with him just 2 weeks before he died because he and his 2nd wife divorced. he somehow claimed not to see how sick his dad really had gotten.
also his sister was in jail for a dui when their dad died.
now that its come about that, his dad left me a benificiary as well as my ex, of his money in the bank, the bank divided it, ex got his already, well now pressure is on ex is asking for what his dad left to me. his ssiter is asking for it too, saying it was supposed to be left things only to him and to her but he didnt get a chance to change his will, that i shouldnt be on his will, that her car is totaled and needs money for legal fees. its a cluster fuck. my ex said he doesnt know yet if his dad also added me as a benificary on his life insurance with him as well, so if thats so then it would be split too. but his dad also left just my ex, his house, and 2 facny cars new correvette and mustang i think they are. plus the half of bank accoutns, but yes ex may also be the only one on his dads life insurance! only me and my ex were in his dads will!!!!
i hate people thinking badly of me, ive never crossed or wronged their family nor did i ever treat my ex badly! hell i was a door matt and blind to his cheating ect. i am accpeting what he left me and respecting it was his wishes for me to have something from him. but god this is going to be a nightmare from my ex and his sister and their mom. i dont know what to do or how to handle it, sure they will hate and never want to speak to me again ever.
what do i do?
total with his dads estate i basically just got 1/3 and its only in liquid money. i partly dont see why my ex cant give his sister the life insurance or even one of the cars he got which hes trying to trade in to get himself an suv . why is it only what his dad left me thats to be torn apart?