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edit*********meeting bf for the first time

Anonymous
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My daughters biofather, might be coming to visit in a few weeks. It will be the first time they've met. He's going to stay at my house to save money. My husband is being super supportive and understanding. I'm afraid how akward it will be. Also I work and my husband is a sahd so they will spend all day everyday together. This sounds like a recipe for disaster. Btw, my DD is seven.

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I am getting more nervous by the day. Tickets have been found and we are working on which day would be best. My ex asked if he could stay for 2 weeks instead of 1 since it is so far. My dh is ok with it, but I can tell he's getting aprehensive now too. If all goes according to plan my ex will be here for my dd's birthday. First meeting, and first birthday he will get to spend with her. He is so terrified/excited. He's been messaging me every day to make sure it still ok for him to come up and stay with us. I just don't know if I should be the one to pick him up alone? Should I bring dd? Should I bring just dh? I wish there was a handbook on this sort of thing! lol!

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 30, 2014 at 5:28 PM
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ashwee356
by on Jan. 30, 2014 at 5:29 PM

O.o

thenameshailie
by Ruby Member on Jan. 30, 2014 at 5:29 PM
1 mom liked this

Im sure everyone will warm up

EAzizM
by Erica on Jan. 30, 2014 at 5:29 PM
Why have they never met before?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 30, 2014 at 5:30 PM

I hope it all goes well. Please keep us updated.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 30, 2014 at 5:30 PM

 I'm crossing my fingers lol.

Quoting thenameshailie:

Im sure everyone will warm up

 

Irish_Fox_Fyre
by Silver Member on Jan. 30, 2014 at 5:30 PM
Fingers crossed it all works out.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 30, 2014 at 5:32 PM

 I didn't know where he was. Turns out he had been arrested so I wrote him off until he straitened himself up.

Quoting EAzizM: Why have they never met before?

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 30, 2014 at 5:32 PM
They're gonna fall in love and have gaybuttsex while you're at work.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 30, 2014 at 5:34 PM

 I will. They've been talking for three months now. We've been taking cues from DD and what she's comfortable with.

Quoting Anonymous:

I hope it all goes well. Please keep us updated.

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 30, 2014 at 5:35 PM

 LMFAO I will make sure to secretly video them and sell copies Ha!

Quoting Anonymous: They're gonna fall in love and have gaybuttsex while you're at work.

 

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