I have seen a lot of posts on here saying we don't throw out kids birthday parties or if we do we ask people not to bring presents etc. This makes me so upset every time I see it. Most of the time the parents are just to lazy to get it together. We go all out for our kids birthday parties every year. I mean it is once a year you get to celebrate your kids they get a little spoiled and you create memories they will carry into adulthood. You are robbing them of those things and I just don't understand it. What is your reasoning in this? Your kids only get one childhood please don't take it away from them.