My life is easier & the rest of the family is happier when my middle child is with my mom 3 hours away! I miss him but I don't miss the craziness his presents brings. He's amazing for my mom but does not listen to me. His behavior affects the other 2 kids. I really think he was meant to be an only child! I dread when she brings him back. I love him so much but his personality conflicts with the rest of us. He keeps his brother awake, refuses to eat, escapes the house among other things. He's 4.5 and needs constant supervision and restrictions or he's getting into things. He's almost burnt our house down with his shenanigans. He's been gone since Saturday & it's Tuesday I hope he stays a few more days!