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I really messed up.My family will forever be changed

Anonymous
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17 yrs ago I fell head over heels for this guy. We slept together a few times and then he blew me off.I was very hurt ,but I moved on.Shortly after, I found out I was pregnant .I decided not to tell the father. He wanted nothing to do with me and was involved with someone else.My dh and I have been together since I was pregnant. He and I are the only ones that know that he isn't the Bio dad of our son.My mom ran into the other man David at a funeral a couple of weeks ago.They were having a conversation when my mom mentioned that I have four kids and their ages.Apparently he is now suspicious that my 16 yr old is his.He has been leaving me messages .I can't avoid him forever. I just don't know what to do this will destroy my son and our family.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 5, 2014 at 12:43 AM
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bellawomen
by Summer on Feb. 5, 2014 at 12:44 AM
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Maybe you shouldn't have been living a lie.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 5, 2014 at 12:45 AM
Uh oh!!! Lie lie and lie some more!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 5, 2014 at 12:46 AM
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My ds' bio dad had no idea he had a kid. Ds is better off with dh raising him. Only you know what's best for your child. Don't let these women bring you down.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 5, 2014 at 12:46 AM
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Just tell him he not the father and that your husband is.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 5, 2014 at 12:47 AM
Tell him he isn't the dad and move on.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2014 at 12:47 AM
Thank you!

Quoting Anonymous: My ds' bio dad had no idea he had a kid. Ds is better off with dh raising him. Only you know what's best for your child. Don't let these women bring you down.
cateringtomel
by Anna_Elijah on Feb. 5, 2014 at 12:47 AM
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No advice.
Best wishes.
cateringtomel
by Anna_Elijah on Feb. 5, 2014 at 12:48 AM
Ahh yes. This

Quoting Anonymous: My ds' bio dad had no idea he had a kid. Ds is better off with dh raising him. Only you know what's best for your child. Don't let these women bring you down.
KaylinC03
by Ruby Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 12:49 AM
I would do whatever you think is in the best interest of your child.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 5, 2014 at 12:49 AM

Lie and say you and dh did a dna test when the baby was born and it's your dh .

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