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Anonymous
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If you found out your dh cheated and had a one night stand would you call the women and tell her he was married. I'm in that situation right now. He doesn't even know that I caught him. He met her off of the meet me app. I checked his email looking for a form the kids dr sent me and found where he was on it. I have her number off the cell usage. I saw on the app where she wrote him and said You left early this morning. Then last night she wrote him and said he was good the other nite.



By the way he has been out of town for the past two weeks for work.


Update  The sad thing is I thought if he did cheat it would be someone younger and prettier than me. But no she is older and looks like crap. so it makes me feel worse.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 5, 2014 at 10:09 AM
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anotheranon
by on Feb. 5, 2014 at 10:12 AM
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I'd change the locks when he got back to town he'd figure it out. ..
Rebecca7708
by Platinum Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 10:14 AM
I would pack up all of his stuff, change the locks and then I would absolutely tell her.

ETA: How do you know that she doesn't already know?
misskriss10
by Ruby Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 10:14 AM
Yep. And I would tell her too.

Quoting anotheranon: I'd change the locks when he got back to town he'd figure it out. ..
LoriLou75
by Ruby Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 10:15 AM
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The only thing I would be calling her to say would be "thank you"
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 5, 2014 at 10:16 AM
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No, I'd leave her out of it. He's married to you, he made a commitment to you not her, she doesn't have anything to do with you. If I were you of send him a text that said "so I see you had fun the other night" make him squim over it. I've always found it better to handle conversations like that, just let him know that you know and see what he says.
JulyBabies
by Platinum Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 10:16 AM

No. My issues are with him. 

kameronsmommy08
by Silver Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 10:17 AM
It's not her fault he's a pos.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2014 at 10:17 AM

I don't know if she knows or not but it seems like if she knew it was just a one night she wouldn't keep sending messages. She seems kind of desperate.

Quoting Rebecca7708: I would pack up all of his stuff, change the locks and then I would absolutely tell her.

ETA: How do you know that she doesn't already know?


TurtleMomma82
by Ruby Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 10:17 AM

I'd probably tell yeah.  Sorry mama:(

You could have some fun with this and tell her to tell (dhs name) that you've changed the locks or something to screw with him a bit.  Or not....at least you know now and can deal with it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 5, 2014 at 10:17 AM
No. Why would I? He knows he has a wife. That's all that matters.
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