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Sorry but I cheated on you almost 3 years ago! Get over it

Anonymous
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I cheated on my husband almost 3 years ago and it never even got physical. Just emotional and sexual graphic skype and texts.

Anyway 3 years later and he's still not over it. I refuse to keep living under a cloud a suspicion. I got snowed in at work and he's questioning me like a robbed a fucking bank. I don't want to be here asshole!!

Anyway if he chooses to stay and work it out shouldn't he get over it?
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 5, 2014 at 1:33 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2014 at 1:36 PM
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briellesmomma
by Velvet on Feb. 5, 2014 at 1:37 PM
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Not with your attitude about it.

You messed his trust up. If you haven't tried counseling, you need to do it now. You betrayed him. He needs time to get that trust back.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 5, 2014 at 1:38 PM
Shouldn't have done it in the first place ..BTW its still cheating
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2014 at 1:38 PM
I didn't start out with this attitude. It took almost 3 years to build up.

Quoting briellesmomma: Not with your attitude about it.



You messed his trust up. If you haven't tried counseling, you need to do it now. You betrayed him. He needs time to get that trust back.
pinkdaisy8864
by GlitterMomfia on Feb. 5, 2014 at 1:38 PM
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Theortically, yes.

But you also have the option to leave if you can't handle his reaction to your cheating.

He doesn't HAVE to get over it, and you don't HAVE to stay. This is the glory of life.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 5, 2014 at 1:39 PM
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While you were wrong and you know that, he chose to stay and needs to either let it go or divorce you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2014 at 1:39 PM
I clearly stated that I cheated. I only clarified it wasn't physical.

Quoting Anonymous: Shouldn't have done it in the first place ..BTW its still cheating
Crymsm
by Platinum Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 1:39 PM
Well how would you feel if it was him. Can hurt a spouses feelings and trust when the person they love does that.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2014 at 1:40 PM
Well I told him today if he couldn't forgive and move on from it then I needed to move on from him. I can't live like this!

Quoting pinkdaisy8864:

Theortically, yes.

But you also have the option to leave if you can't handle his reaction to your cheating.

He doesn't HAVE to get over it, and you don't HAVE to stay. This is the glory of life.

JulyBabies
by Platinum Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 1:40 PM


Quoting Anonymous: While you were wrong and you know that, he chose to stay and needs to either let it go or divorce you.

I agree. 

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