After spending an amazing morning with my dh we decided to go grab a bite to eat. Well i went into the bathroom to get ready and when i came out he was wearing the hoodie and hat he always wears to work. So i asked if he got called in to work. This started a terrible argument about me judging his clothes. Wtf?Anyway he just kept yelling at me and actually said " you need to learn to just shut the fuck up and just fucking go. Don't ask stupid fuckin questions. " I was crying by then and he said i always act like a "fucking tragic victim " and hes tired of it. I tried to just stay quiet so he would leave me alone but he just kept coming back and yelling. Finally he just stayed in the living room and i stayed in the bedroom. About an hr after that he came in there and wanted to snuggle and fell asleep. I hate living in a marriage like this.
There is no point to this, I just needed to vent.:(
EDIT: I think he got upset by my question because he always dresses in his worst possible clothes if we are going somewhere. Stained, holey, dirty lookin clothes. I have said something a time or two cause it is embarrassing sometimes but today i honestly thought he got called in. He said i am always saying something about his clothes.
Edit #2-- i bumped my post from October about his behavior. I guess it really isn't going to change.: (