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he is blaming me.

Anonymous
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My s/o and I were arguing earlier and he tried to say that I am the one who picks fights with his brothers girlfriend. I can't believe he thinks that it is entirely my fault that his brothers girlfriend and I do not get along. I will admit maybe I am half at fault but he was completely defending her even though she:
•Attempts to copy my life (my job, house, car, children, important events, etc.)
•Steals my belongings and doesn't give them back.
•Accuses me of stealing her belongings (even when I don't come around her)
•Brags about details about her life.
•Tries to make me feel bad about my life.

I try to stay away from her. In the 2 years she and his brother have been together she has constantly done things to make it where people don't like her (I'm not the only one, s/o's friends don't like her either for similar reasons). But he is acting like I shouldn't have a reason to dislike her.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 5, 2014 at 7:28 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 5, 2014 at 7:30 PM

Why would she both try copy your life AND try and make you feel bad about your life?

That makes no sense...

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 5, 2014 at 7:30 PM
Be the better person. Kill her with kindness. Etc etc.
Nickie76
by Silver Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 7:30 PM
Simply stay away... Sounds like there is growing up to do.
Sparklepants747
by Queen Annie on Feb. 5, 2014 at 7:30 PM

It seems like you are really fixated on this. Just let it go and keep her away from your stuff. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2014 at 7:32 PM
I'm not fixated on it, well I wasn't until s/o told me that I'm at fault for the reason we don't get along.

Quoting Sparklepants747:

It seems like you are really fixated on this. Just let it go and keep her away from your stuff. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 5, 2014 at 7:32 PM
Like OMG! No she didn't! How dare she!



She is so not sitting at the cool table with us today.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2014 at 7:34 PM
Well I am disabled, which she makes me feel bad about (because there are a lot of things I cannot due w/ my disability) and then she tries to copy things like getting engaged a day after me, naming her pets the same name as mine, etc.

Quoting Anonymous:

Why would she both try copy your life AND try and make you feel bad about your life?

That makes no sense...

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 5, 2014 at 7:34 PM
Lol

Quoting Anonymous: Like OMG! No she didn't! How dare she!







She is so not sitting at the cool table with us today.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 5, 2014 at 7:37 PM
My one sister in law dud this time my other sister in law. Let me just say, she was having sex with my other brother
MamaRae85
by *you're on Feb. 5, 2014 at 7:39 PM

How does she copy your children? lol

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