Several months ago I had to cut off a friend. I finally realized after years of me being there for her that she only came around when she needed something. And she always brought her drama with her.
I'm talking psycho ex who kicks in doors at 3 am but she refuses to press charges on.
Crazy ex friends who slash her tires and squeel tires in front of her house.
Everything is drama and she brings it on herself. She is also one of those slightly psycho people who will stalk an ex for years on Facebook even if she "doesn't care anymore"
If they block her she will try to use other peoples accounts and if that fails she will resort to making up a fake profile and try to stalk the person.
She is a mother but she is still pretty immature. She does love her son but all she ever knew was an absent father and an alcoholic mother who lived off of welfare. She is apparently aspiring to become her mother.
Which brings me to the real reason of this post. Her mother died 5 years ago today. She was always close to her and I know how hard this month always is for her. I feel bad for her and want to make sure she is doing okay. But at the same time I don't want to invite drama into my life again. I haven't spoke with her in 6 months and haven't had to deal with anyone's drama but my own.