We are currently making our birth plan for our first. We are planning a natural water birth. It will be me and my best friend in the tubwith her at my back. My husband and pretty much everyone else I talk to about this says I'm being selfish, but my husband is so high strung and lacks all ability to calm himself down. I just flat out dont want him there with me and forcing me to worry about him and his feelings instead of myself. Hes making me feel like I'm being mean and petty about this and trying to take the moment of our first child's birth away from him.
Am I wrong for this? Of course he will be the first person receive.