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How do I tell him?

Anonymous
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How do I tell my dh I fell in love with my BFF. She has been having a very hard time and has been staying with us. Well I have fallen in love with her. She is moving out next week so it won't be as bad but I feel like I should tell him. She has feeling to but I'm not willing to leave my dh and she isn't willing to share me so it will never be anything.

Would you tell dh? We have not done anything so I haven't cheated but its been hard not to. I just don't know what to do
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 12, 2014 at 5:12 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 12, 2014 at 5:13 PM
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I wouldn't tell him and I would severely limit my time with her.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 12, 2014 at 5:13 PM

um.

OwlNuggets
by HAIL NUGGY! on Feb. 12, 2014 at 5:14 PM
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I wouldn't tell him and to save my marriage, I think once your friend moves away you need to cut contact with her.

You need to decide which is more important: Your marriage to him, or her.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 12, 2014 at 5:15 PM

Take it to the grave.  Period.

sfigu16
by Platinum Member on Feb. 12, 2014 at 5:15 PM
Huh interesting
AZHOTMOM
by Platinum Member on Feb. 12, 2014 at 5:15 PM

Why tell him if nothing is to come of it. It will just create doubt and confusion in his mind.

mojogirl
by Alice Liddell on Feb. 12, 2014 at 5:16 PM

of course you don't tell him!!

that would be beyond idiotic. take it to your grave, unless you intend on leaving him for her.

mom_dl6
by on Feb. 12, 2014 at 5:17 PM

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 12, 2014 at 5:17 PM

Question:  What do lesbians do on the second date?

Answer:    Rent a U-Haul.


She'll move one quite quickly once she does not have everyday contact with you.  


vam1080
by Member on Feb. 12, 2014 at 5:21 PM
Tell him! Communication is number one in a marriage!
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