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Sex.. How important is it in marriage?

Anonymous
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My husband and I have been in a bad place lately. He's a great husband on paper, takes care of me and the kids. The only other complaint I have about him are his family. They're awful. We haven't had sex in over a year. He's small, he can't get hard and he can barely get it to work. I get upset because a few times this week I initiated it but it never happened. He could barely get it in. I had a great sex life before I married my husband and sometimes I think I'll never have good sex again. Literally. I don't even know what to do.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 14, 2014 at 12:55 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 14, 2014 at 1:02 AM

if he has difficulty getting it up then why hasnt he gone to a proctologist or gotten a script for viagra?  Maybe discuss having an open marriage so that you can get your intimate activities elsewhere.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 14, 2014 at 1:03 AM
He's tried it (Viagra) and it didn't work. :( it makes me sad
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 14, 2014 at 1:05 AM

How old is he? Viagra? 

suzanneyea
by on Feb. 14, 2014 at 1:06 AM

I a sure you knew this before you got married...

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 14, 2014 at 1:07 AM
Sex isn't very important here. I have health issues, so it's hard

Our relationship means more to us than just sex. The companionship and love we share makes it work.
PinkButterfly66
by Sapphire Member on Feb. 14, 2014 at 1:09 AM
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Has he had his testosterone levels checked?

Mamie_du_Monde_
by on Feb. 14, 2014 at 1:09 AM
Are you patient with him during sex or do you get upset? Are you actively involved during the process or just lay there waiting for him to take care of it? Do you attempt to do other things beside penetrative sex?
alexsmomaubrys2
by on Feb. 14, 2014 at 1:10 AM

You should be concerned about his health. He needs to get to the doctor ASAP, that can be a sign of cardiovascular disease. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 14, 2014 at 1:12 AM
Do you love him? If so, my dh says "Buy a vibrator and let him partake in it. If you hate him and leave him for something he really doesn't have control over then how do think he would feel? How would you feel?"
SnapIt
by Ruby Member on Feb. 14, 2014 at 1:15 AM
Sex to me is very important
I say he should go get checked, if nothing came of it i would have to see what is important besides sex
Take everything in our relationship into consideration

There are other ways to go about having pleasurable sex to keep connected and to keep the intimacy so that you dont have to split
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