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So Frustrated with DH....do I have a right to be? :(

Anonymous
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My husband has been at a school for 2 weeks. He comes home today. Last night at 8:45 he texted me saying that he, his buddy, and some guys he met at school were all playing pool and he would call me when he got back to his room. I didn't hear from him until 1:20 am. It was a text apologizing, say he had to escort a couple of the guys back to the hotel because they were shit faced drunk.
Now I have NO problem with him playing pool with the guys. I guess it's just because he does things like this from time to time and it's so frustrating and hurtful. It's like he doesn't respect the fact that I enjoy hearing from him and we do miss each other immensely. Am I being silly?
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 14, 2014 at 12:34 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 14, 2014 at 12:40 PM
Bump...I really need some input ladies..thank you
ButterMeUp
by Butters on Feb. 14, 2014 at 12:44 PM
Depends on how often from time to time is. If he is doing this once or twice a week, it would be an issue for me too. However if this is a once a month type thing I'd be fine with it and get over it.
imthatgirl0607
by Emerald Member on Feb. 14, 2014 at 12:45 PM
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He was coming home today anyway?

Youre over reacting.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 14, 2014 at 12:46 PM
Why are you married if you and dh don't live together?
sfigu16
by Platinum Member on Feb. 14, 2014 at 12:47 PM
I really dont see why you are so upset
When my man goes out, I don't expect him to text me all the time
Just like when I go out I am not attached to the phone all the time.

Tell him how you feel
Candi1024
by Gold Member on Feb. 14, 2014 at 12:48 PM
What exactly are you upset about? He called you when he said he would.
JDmommyJD
by the sauce is boss on Feb. 14, 2014 at 12:49 PM
So it was his last night there, with his friends, and they had a big get shitfaced farewell..

Not seeing an issue..
Kerannmer
by on Feb. 14, 2014 at 12:49 PM

Yes, you're being silly.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 14, 2014 at 12:50 PM
We do, he's at a school.

Quoting Anonymous: Why are you married if you and dh don't live together?
mcginnisc
by *Claire-Bear* on Feb. 14, 2014 at 12:50 PM
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Umm...I do think you are over reacting..big time. 

It was a matter of a few hours....and...he DID call you..just later than he expected...AND...he was coming home today. Honestly, I think you are in for a world of aggravation if you get this upset over a few hours difference. 

Claire


" I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13 

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