I wanted to be a good wife and give my husband the gift of anal haha. I bought some stuff called tushy tammer. Yeaaaaah bad idea. It completely numbed my butt which is great, except the lube got everywhere numbing my clit too. And worst of all my husbands penis!!! Anal fail lol. We eventually had to hop in the shower to wash that shit off just so we could finish. Except it doesn't really wash away the numbing feeling. It was kind of a disaster. Boooo. What do you use during anal?