We had already agreed on this. We need me working and I will be in 2-3 months. But my paying for the course means he can't get the instrument cases he wants right now. He's going to have to wait and I will ship him the instruments as we can afford it. But between the military (he came down on orders for Italy) and custody issues with my DD we have to split into two households, his one income cannot support two households. So I found a course that is 2-3 months long, and helps with job placement, plus the cost of my certification exam and all of my books is included.
Was I wrong to go ahead with what we had agreed on, or should I have let him get the cases. The cases are expensive and only benefit him. My going back to work benefits all of us.
Every time I try to go to school or back to work he fights it. And I'm sick of him guilting me into staying home.