Ok, sure. If you feel like crying when I tell you exactly what I think of you and put you in your place. We certainly can have this little sit down.
She thinks that she should be made to feel comfortable when she comes to my home. I watch ss when she works everyday. So we see her often.
She isn't comfortable because I am not chatty and smiley with her. I am not rude, but it's kept simple and short. I don't make conversation, but will answer parenting questions she has. She isn't allowed to just come in my house and go in my kitchen to put things she brought for ss away. (Like if she brought food for him to eat for a snack or whatever or to put her work schedule on my fridge where we keep it). She is to just give it to us....and we will take care of it.
Also, we have a family cell phone she contacts is on. Dh doesn't have one of his own...his choice. It was to cut down on her bs.
Back story. She's a wanna be home wrecker. If she wasn't, sure! Let's chat it up and be friendly!
She has sent my dh pics with half her bra hanging out of her tank top, one even had part of her areola in it. She bought him this 6 inch lighter that said "I want someone real bad. Are you real bad?" He handed it right back to her. He's handled each situation and I've said things to her as well. But she still keeps doing this whoretastic shit.
So no. She is not going to be made to feel comfortable in my home. She can't respect my marriage.....she can fuck off and deal with my short, to the point attitude.
Am I a royal bitch for having this mindset? What would you say to her during this convo? Ohhh, how I'm looking forward to this conversation. I've quit saying much to her about her behavior because when I do she cries and keeps ss away. Uses him as a pawn against us. It blows. I just let dh deal with it mostly.
Btw. They were never married. Never in a relationship. It was just a one night stand type deal. My dh was an idiot. Lol. She can't let go and "will always love and respect him". Apparently self respect is out of the question for her....