So she's nuts. And he's obviously lying to her. I haven't even seen my father since last summer and have only spoken to himvia text maybe twice. That's not surprising though, he's specifically asked me to tell women how great he is and how awful my mother was to him before. Anyway, I want no parts of that mess and my sister doesn't either. Here's where it gets sticky. He lives 5 minutes from my sister. My niece's birthday party is this weekend at a firehouse that my father reserved because he helps out there. He informed my sister that he's bringing E. She asked him not to. She told him it's too soon, she's not ready to meet her and doesn't want the kids to meet her yet either because it's confusing for them. Especially considering how close they are to the last one. He basically told her tough he's bringing her anyway. After I got those messages this morning I sent them to my sister. She had the same reaction I did which is basically "WTF". But now we're seriously concerned about this woman being around the kids. Maybe we're overreacting but it's just so bizarre. So we don't know what to do. He won't listen to reason and the party is less than a week away. My sister is afraid if she makes him any more mad he'll cancel the firehall. She's tried to find another place to have it but hasn't had any luck yet. She and our father have always been close so this is harder for her. I barely have contact with him as it is so that's not really an issue for me. But I'm uncomfortable about tjis party. He'll play the doting grandfatherand want her to hold my babies and all and I'm just not okay with that. Neither is my sister. But neither of us is sure what to do about the party..