I'm so tired of hearing excuses for autistic kids...
If you can't handle your sn child, get some help so you can.....making excuses and pooh poohing bad behavior due to a problem like that is not helping the child or you.
'Oh johnny can't possibly help clean up, he's autistic, and he'll have a melt down'
'My child gets up early and destroys the house but i can't be bothered to get up and supervise'
'Oh we can't possibly go there because I can't handle Johnny in that setting'