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$1300?? is he kidding me?

Anonymous
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SO is a freaking idiot with bills and money.

I. On the other hand, am super paraniod about stuff and stay on top of everything.

He let the power get turned off in the house, again.

What's the price to get it turned back on? $1300!

Of course, he doesn't have the $$ so he expects me to pay it.

He got paid 2 weeks ago. He got a profit sharing check last week from work to the tune of $6k. He got paid today.

He makes 3x as much as I do.

How in the fuck does he not have the money????

I am trying to leave him. I can't wait to leave him.

I have to pay to have it turned on because my kids need power. But I'm so angry pissed and hurt.

Now, before anybody says anything....this is the ONLY bill he has monthly.

I pay for the cell phones, I pay the cc, I pay for the household needs and what the kids need. I pay for the car, insurance and gas.

He has 1 bill he is responsible for paying on time!
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2014 at 12:29 PM
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Mommy383
by Silver Member on Feb. 21, 2014 at 12:30 PM

Seriously?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2014 at 12:31 PM
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If you're paying all the bills anyway, tell him gtfo...now.
almondpigeon
by Ruby Member on Feb. 21, 2014 at 12:32 PM
Absolutely this.

Quoting Anonymous: If you're paying all the bills anyway, tell him gtfo...now.
Mrs_lassalle
by Member on Feb. 21, 2014 at 12:33 PM

I cant live like that! Wow! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2014 at 12:33 PM
Can't, the house is in both our names.

Working on everything with a lawyer.

I don't want the house.

Quoting Anonymous: If you're paying all the bills anyway, tell him gtfo...now.
Serabeth06
by on Feb. 21, 2014 at 12:33 PM
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....Wow. He's either hiding money from you, blowing it on something, or there's something serious going on there. o.O

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2014 at 12:34 PM
I can't either. I have been so steessed out the last 2 days. I haven't slept. I am sick to my stomach.

Quoting Mrs_lassalle:

I cant live like that! Wow! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2014 at 12:35 PM
Then why don't YOU move out? Even though the house is in both names (assuming is a mortgage) just go file the deeds to absolve yourself. You can move out before this happens. It happens a lot during regular divorces. If its a lease, go speak to the landlord and take your name off. Why would you continue to let him f you over?

Quoting Anonymous: Can't, the house is in both our names.



Working on everything with a lawyer.



I don't want the house.



Quoting Anonymous: If you're paying all the bills anyway, tell him gtfo...now.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 21, 2014 at 12:35 PM
He is blowing it.

He bought himself a new ipad, and all the bits and pieces to go with it......

He is constantly buying electronics.

But I wouldn't be surprised if he is hiding a lot from me either.

I think he is doing.it partly as a way to control me.

Quoting Serabeth06:

....Wow. He's either hiding money from you, blowing it on something, or there's something serious going on there. o.O

KRIZZ25
by on Feb. 21, 2014 at 12:36 PM
have him pay the bill then kick him out.he is doing it because ur letting him.
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