So it's been 4 days or so and I hadn't received the pin, I figured if I didn't get it today i would call the bank Monday.
Well I went to Walmart and rang up my total on the self check out line and swiped my card and the machine told me my card was declined. Thinking I put in the wrong pin by mistake I tried again and made sure the pin was correct. Again it was declined and by then the lady checking out next to me was watching as listening.
Then the cashier came over and tried to help and of course it was still declined so red faced I called and activated the card and lo and behold it worked immediately!!!!
Lol lesson learned on my part but damn I'm embarrassed and that whole situation is hard to explain to a 4 year old who had a million questions and keeps saying my card is broken.