My kids are 11 and 14. My kids don't have cell phones, tablets, laptops, computers, ipods or any of the stuff that people deem necessary for children today. They do have video games but older one. They never get online except for at school. We don't have internet or WiFi. We also don't have cable anywhere except the living room in our house and it is basic cable. .
My kids play outside, read and if my 14 year want to listen to music she has a good old fashione stereo.
We don't go on vacation because I don't feel vacation are a need.
So judge me. By the way we can afford those thing we just don't think they are necessary.