poof to the post about how she blew her 5000 tax return?
I don't understand it. Your baby went 5 months without a crib because you couldn't afford to buy one. You went months without a phone because you couldn't afford to get one when yours broke. Instead of paying off your medical bills that you complained about, saying they were ruining your credit, you paid a 1600 deposit so you and your husband could have expensive phones.
You should have got cheap, prepaid phones and either paid off those medical bills or put that money in savings so that you won't have to wait for tax time to buy your children what they need.