My parents gave my siblings inheritance money but won't give me mine because I had a baby
My parents set up trusts when we were little for us when we grew up. A lot of it was money my grandparents left them, but with the understanding it was for us.
I'm 19 and I have twin sons with my boyfriend of 3 years. When my siblings turned 18 and were going off to college, my parents gave them their money, which is $40,000 each. Since I'm a mom of twins, I don't have time for school now. However, my boyfriend and I are struggling financially, and want to buy a house so we're not throwing away money on rent anymore.
I asked my parents if I could have my trust so we can put money for a down payment. They said no way, that's for school, and if you never go, we're keeping it.
I get that it's their money, but it's so unfair. They promised it to us growing up. They know it would go towards their grandsons having a safe place with a yard to grow up, and they don't care.