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Not the kind of woman men marry...

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WTF.

My neighbor actually told me I was not the kind of woman men actually marry. Just have sex with til they are ready to settle down. What a bitch!

She asked me if my current SO and I had set a date yet. When I told her we have called off the engagement for now, thy was her answer. Wow. And she did t even realize what a bitch she was being and was shocked when I was offended. She tried to say she meant I wasn't the kind to settle down myself but that's not what she said.
by on Feb. 23, 2014 at 4:34 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 75 on May. 6, 2014 at 4:58 PM
Yes, and that is very sad as well. It's perfectly acceptable to have the other parent take the kids while you get your life in order. I just don't think anyone can get over the fact that she left her kids to move to another state with the guy she'd cheated on her dh with, and after only talking to him for a month.

Quoting Anonymous: Wow!
Very sad.
Her kids are probably missing her.

She did mentioned though, that she was dealing with some kind of mental health issues on one of her replies.



Quoting Anonymous: Oh yes. Someone bumped this post because of the other drama post of hers going on right now.


http://mobile.cafemom.com/group/115189/forums/read/19910908/The_BM_Saga_Continues?next=1


Quoting Anonymous: Are you sure, we are talking about the same lady?

The one I am talking about is the one that is heartbroken after having a misscarriage, lossing her fiance, who also was her friend for a while, before living together and who no longer has to deal with that kind of neighboor!!!?

Quoting Anonymous: And she left her kids behind in FL to live with this guy in OH after only talking to him for a month.

Quoting Anonymous: Oh!



Quoting Anonymous:

 She's already moved on to another piece of dick and moved in with him after one month,  but she's in a much better place now and not dysfunctional at all!


Quoting Anonymous: Sorry! How you and your fiance handlling it?
Quoting Joie35: I miscarried shortly after that thread. And I no.longer live there.
Quoting Anonymous: When is your baby due? Have you seen your neighboor lately?

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 75 on May. 6, 2014 at 4:58 PM
I know :(

Quoting Anonymous: Thanks.

Jesus Christ. OP keeps making one bad decision after another.

Quoting Anonymous: http://mobile.cafemom.com/group/115189/forums/read/19910908/The_BM_Saga_Continues?next=1

Quoting Anonymous: Wait, what????

Quoting Anonymous: And she left her kids behind in FL to live with this guy in OH after only talking to him for a month.

Quoting Anonymous: Oh!



Quoting Anonymous:

 She's already moved on to another piece of dick and moved in with him after one month,  but she's in a much better place now and not dysfunctional at all!


Quoting Anonymous: Sorry! How you and your fiance handlling it?
Quoting Joie35: I miscarried shortly after that thread. And I no.longer live there.
Quoting Anonymous: When is your baby due? Have you seen your neighboor lately?

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 74 on May. 6, 2014 at 5:06 PM
She needs to heal from her divorce, her relationship being over with her fiance, and having a misscarriage, before she is healthy enough to start a new relationship with anyone else.
We all can see that. She is a lost and I am really sorry we can not help her!!

Quoting Anonymous: Yes, and that is very sad as well. It's perfectly acceptable to have the other parent take the kids while you get your life in order. I just don't think anyone can get over the fact that she left her kids to move to another state with the guy she'd cheated on her dh with, and after only talking to him for a month.

Quoting Anonymous: Wow!
Very sad.
Her kids are probably missing her.

She did mentioned though, that she was dealing with some kind of mental health issues on one of her replies.



Quoting Anonymous: Oh yes. Someone bumped this post because of the other drama post of hers going on right now.


http://mobile.cafemom.com/group/115189/forums/read/19910908/The_BM_Saga_Continues?next=1


Quoting Anonymous: Are you sure, we are talking about the same lady?

The one I am talking about is the one that is heartbroken after having a misscarriage, lossing her fiance, who also was her friend for a while, before living together and who no longer has to deal with that kind of neighboor!!!?

Quoting Anonymous: And she left her kids behind in FL to live with this guy in OH after only talking to him for a month.

Quoting Anonymous: Oh!



Quoting Anonymous:

 She's already moved on to another piece of dick and moved in with him after one month,  but she's in a much better place now and not dysfunctional at all!


Quoting Anonymous: Sorry! How you and your fiance handlling it?
Quoting Joie35: I miscarried shortly after that thread. And I no.longer live there.
Quoting Anonymous: When is your baby due? Have you seen your neighboor lately?

 

ivy801
by Gold Member on May. 6, 2014 at 5:07 PM
Looks like they've gone digging.
DarylNVannasMom
by on May. 6, 2014 at 5:13 PM

Quoting Anonymous: So you're married AND you were engaged...at the same time? #winning
Quoting Joie35: I'm actually getting divorced and live with the only other man I've been in a relationship with in several years. Heh. But whatever. A she can think what she wants.
Quoting klespeedy0205: ouch. that stung a little and it wasnt said to me. dont worry about her. i am 36 and never been married. i was engaged and have lived with 2 other men. i take marriage very seriously and refuse to just do it with just anyone. btw, she is prob jealous.


mary716
by on May. 6, 2014 at 5:25 PM
I need to start paying attention to pist dates lol

Quoting Anonymous: Sadly in less than 3 months: she had a miscarriage, lost her fiance and though they were friends for years before they lived together; they do not longer speak.


Quoting mary716: Do you know OP personally to be able to make that call? How about her SO? No? Didnt think so.

Hey joie, your neighbor sounds like a bitter bitch. Dont let it get to you. Oh & did you and your so talk about what you were worried about?

Quoting Anonymous:

Sounds like she's right,  sorry the truth hurts ya! 

mary716
by on May. 6, 2014 at 5:27 PM
I seriously just saw the original post date lmao

Quoting Anonymous: Her fiancé dumped her out of the blue and they no longer speak. Then she had a miscarriage. Then she left her kids with their dad, to move to OH and in with the guy she cheated on her dh with 6 years ago, after only talking to him for a month.

Quoting mary716: Do you know OP personally to be able to make that call? How about her SO? No? Didnt think so.

Hey joie, your neighbor sounds like a bitter bitch. Dont let it get to you. Oh & did you and your so talk about what you were worried about?

Quoting Anonymous:

Sounds like she's right,  sorry the truth hurts ya! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 76 on May. 6, 2014 at 5:31 PM
And you seriously got offended by what your neighbor said? Truth is she is right, no respectable successful man would look at you as any kind of marriage prospect. No man is going to be proud to bring that home, its trashy. FFS you have kids with 3 different men, bleh.

Quoting Joie35: No dear. I am getting divorced actually. My oldest was born when is was in highschool. The younger 3 are all my ex husbands. The baby I'm carrying is my SOs

Quoting Anonymous:

And you are not married?? How many different dads? Five??  Holy crap, no wonder she said that.

Quoting Joie35: Whatever. Guess I'm cursed. I've got 4 kids and I'm pregnant with ny 5th. Clearly I cannot pass as some virginal church girl type.

Quoting Anonymous:

A nice guy isn't going to want someone who is slept with a bunch of guys to marry and have kids with.   A nice guy isn't going to sleep around with a bunch of girls,either.

Quoting Joie35: Why not? Most people do not wait for marriage to have sex these days.

Quoting Anonymous:

Then you probably aren't going to find a very nice guy.

Quoting Joie35: Meh. I refuse to go without sex just because I'm not married.

Quoting thejodigirl:

She probably just thinks of the old adage about why buy the cow since you're giving it up for free. It does have some merit but they way she said that was rude.

LoriLou75
by Ruby Member on May. 6, 2014 at 5:39 PM
This is such a sexist way to think, and sadly MANY women believe it and repeat it. I hate that people that think like this are raising young boys and girls to think like this :(
Anonymous
by Anonymous 71 on May. 6, 2014 at 5:41 PM
All you know about op is that she has kids by different men and you think that is all you need to pass judgement on her? Wow, that's fucking crazy.

Quoting Anonymous: And you seriously got offended by what your neighbor said? Truth is she is right, no respectable successful man would look at you as any kind of marriage prospect. No man is going to be proud to bring that home, its trashy. FFS you have kids with 3 different men, bleh.

Quoting Joie35: No dear. I am getting divorced actually. My oldest was born when is was in highschool. The younger 3 are all my ex husbands. The baby I'm carrying is my SOs

Quoting Anonymous:

And you are not married?? How many different dads? Five??  Holy crap, no wonder she said that.

Quoting Joie35: Whatever. Guess I'm cursed. I've got 4 kids and I'm pregnant with ny 5th. Clearly I cannot pass as some virginal church girl type.

Quoting Anonymous:

A nice guy isn't going to want someone who is slept with a bunch of guys to marry and have kids with.   A nice guy isn't going to sleep around with a bunch of girls,either.

Quoting Joie35: Why not? Most people do not wait for marriage to have sex these days.

Quoting Anonymous:

Then you probably aren't going to find a very nice guy.

Quoting Joie35: Meh. I refuse to go without sex just because I'm not married.

Quoting thejodigirl:

She probably just thinks of the old adage about why buy the cow since you're giving it up for free. It does have some merit but they way she said that was rude.

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