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Not the kind of woman men marry...

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WTF.

My neighbor actually told me I was not the kind of woman men actually marry. Just have sex with til they are ready to settle down. What a bitch!

She asked me if my current SO and I had set a date yet. When I told her we have called off the engagement for now, thy was her answer. Wow. And she did t even realize what a bitch she was being and was shocked when I was offended. She tried to say she meant I wasn't the kind to settle down myself but that's not what she said.
by on Feb. 23, 2014 at 4:34 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 77 on May. 6, 2014 at 5:43 PM
Hmm. She was probably jealous and happy that you broke off your engagement. She's a miserable bitch.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 78 on May. 6, 2014 at 5:44 PM

I agree with her, you are nothing but drama who sleeps with married men.

Ali5683
by Ruby Member on May. 6, 2014 at 5:45 PM

Well, that's her opinion. Maybe there is some truth to that.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 75 on May. 6, 2014 at 5:57 PM
I hate when old posts get bumped, and I respond...and realize it was the same response I gave a year ago lol

Quoting mary716: I seriously just saw the original post date lmao

Quoting Anonymous: Her fiancé dumped her out of the blue and they no longer speak. Then she had a miscarriage. Then she left her kids with their dad, to move to OH and in with the guy she cheated on her dh with 6 years ago, after only talking to him for a month.

Quoting mary716: Do you know OP personally to be able to make that call? How about her SO? No? Didnt think so.

Hey joie, your neighbor sounds like a bitter bitch. Dont let it get to you. Oh & did you and your so talk about what you were worried about?

Quoting Anonymous:

Sounds like she's right,  sorry the truth hurts ya! 

mary716
by Ruby Member on May. 6, 2014 at 6:03 PM
Lol right?

Quoting Anonymous: I hate when old posts get bumped, and I respond...and realize it was the same response I gave a year ago lol

Quoting mary716: I seriously just saw the original post date lmao

Quoting Anonymous: Her fiancé dumped her out of the blue and they no longer speak. Then she had a miscarriage. Then she left her kids with their dad, to move to OH and in with the guy she cheated on her dh with 6 years ago, after only talking to him for a month.

Quoting mary716: Do you know OP personally to be able to make that call? How about her SO? No? Didnt think so.

Hey joie, your neighbor sounds like a bitter bitch. Dont let it get to you. Oh & did you and your so talk about what you were worried about?

Quoting Anonymous:

Sounds like she's right,  sorry the truth hurts ya! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 74 on May. 6, 2014 at 6:09 PM
You are not alone....some of us, do it too. Lol

Quoting mary716: I need to start paying attention to pist dates lol

Quoting Anonymous: Sadly in less than 3 months: she had a miscarriage, lost her fiance and though they were friends for years before they lived together; they do not longer speak.


Quoting mary716: Do you know OP personally to be able to make that call? How about her SO? No? Didnt think so.

Hey joie, your neighbor sounds like a bitter bitch. Dont let it get to you. Oh & did you and your so talk about what you were worried about?

Quoting Anonymous:

Sounds like she's right,  sorry the truth hurts ya! 

MaeBell4
by Bronze Member on May. 6, 2014 at 6:22 PM

OMG She sounds like a crazy lady. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 79 on May. 6, 2014 at 6:25 PM
Are you 504 long lost cousin
Anonymous
by Anonymous 76 on May. 6, 2014 at 6:25 PM
Absolutely. She got pregnant in high school and then has 4 more kids by two other men, yep no more info needed. It tells me she lacks maturity and has a codependency problem with men, time to grow up and quit giving it up out of both pant legs.

Quoting Anonymous: All you know about op is that she has kids by different men and you think that is all you need to pass judgement on her? Wow, that's fucking crazy.

Quoting Anonymous: And you seriously got offended by what your neighbor said? Truth is she is right, no respectable successful man would look at you as any kind of marriage prospect. No man is going to be proud to bring that home, its trashy. FFS you have kids with 3 different men, bleh.

Quoting Joie35: No dear. I am getting divorced actually. My oldest was born when is was in highschool. The younger 3 are all my ex husbands. The baby I'm carrying is my SOs

Quoting Anonymous:

And you are not married?? How many different dads? Five??  Holy crap, no wonder she said that.

Quoting Joie35: Whatever. Guess I'm cursed. I've got 4 kids and I'm pregnant with ny 5th. Clearly I cannot pass as some virginal church girl type.

Quoting Anonymous:

A nice guy isn't going to want someone who is slept with a bunch of guys to marry and have kids with.   A nice guy isn't going to sleep around with a bunch of girls,either.

Quoting Joie35: Why not? Most people do not wait for marriage to have sex these days.

Quoting Anonymous:

Then you probably aren't going to find a very nice guy.

Quoting Joie35: Meh. I refuse to go without sex just because I'm not married.

Quoting thejodigirl:

She probably just thinks of the old adage about why buy the cow since you're giving it up for free. It does have some merit but they way she said that was rude.

Miller0305
by Platinum Member on May. 6, 2014 at 6:26 PM

Great observation. Or her twin lol

Quoting Anonymous: Are you 504 long lost cousin


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