My confession: I feel like I don't like my husband. I think I'd always love him...we've been thru a lot, but I don't want that be the only reason we are together. I told him this and said I thought I may move out and he said a simple ok. I think he feels the same too, but we've just invested so much time together it's hard to let go. He says I have changed, I wish he would change...we met young in our party years and now, I think about our kids, responsibilities, all that jazz and he still wants to party. He went to jail once a while ago for dumb stuff, recently lost his job to more dumb stuff. I just feel like 20 years from now we will resent each other. I know it sounds lame, but there is a lot more to this story.
Anyway, just curious about seperation. I wonder if it might help, either confirm that we are happier apart or show us we really want to work to be together.
I take my vows seriously. I meant what I said, till death do us part. But is it fair to both us to be miserable?