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Anonymous
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What are your policies regarding friends of the opposite sex coming over?

I have a 14 year old son who always has a girlfriend...ugh. We let him have her in his room, with the door open and only if we are on the same floor. He is upset because we told him that they are not allowed to lie in his bed and snuggle. I just don't like it. He thinks I am ridiculous, I don't.

What say you?
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 24, 2014 at 4:45 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 24, 2014 at 4:59 PM
Same rule here. Frequent checks. No blankets, lights on. Our walls are paper thin, so that helped too.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 24, 2014 at 4:59 PM
Reasoning....I'd rather them be here and supervised than elsewhere.
lenashark
by Ruby Member on Feb. 24, 2014 at 5:01 PM

Our rule is there needs to be an adult home and the door needs to stay open. We also have talks about respecting our bodies and others bodies. I wouldn't allow my 14 year old to lie and snuggle with a girl in front of me, it just isn't polite.

Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Feb. 24, 2014 at 5:01 PM

 Our children don't date until they're eighteen, so that would not be an issue here.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 24, 2014 at 5:01 PM
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I would be pissed if you let my daughter in your sons bedroom !
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 24, 2014 at 5:01 PM
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No one of the opposite sex are allowed in bedrooms. No exceptions.
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by Ruby Member on Feb. 24, 2014 at 5:02 PM

Tell him he can like that or he can like being in the living room on different pieces of furniture.

kiddycat73
by Gold Member on Feb. 24, 2014 at 5:02 PM
Me too! Here they can stay in the common areas only...never in a bedroom!

Quoting Anonymous: I would be pissed if you let my daughter in your sons bedroom !

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 24, 2014 at 5:03 PM
Exactly!

Quoting kiddycat73: Me too! Here they can stay in the common areas only...never in a bedroom!



Quoting Anonymous: I would be pissed if you let my daughter in your sons bedroom !


AZHOTMOM
by Platinum Member on Feb. 24, 2014 at 5:03 PM

Somewhat the same. In their room, if the door is open, they are allowed to touch, hold hand and such, not under any blankets and no making out type touching.

No one is allowed over while we are gone.

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