They're not financially stable and her dd has anger issues and a short temper, I know it's not my place to say anything, but I cannot believe what I heard.
THE DAUGHTER IS NOT PREGNANT YET! THEY ARE PLANNING IT.
UPDATE: I rang my friend, but it went to voicemail so I left a message discussing my concerns. 2 hours later she text me and I replied; this is how the convo went
Av: river isn't your concern so I'd keep your opinions to yourself if I were you.
Me: you're right, she isn't my concern, but you're a good friend of mine and you know as well as I do that if you bring a child into your situation you are doing more harm!
Av: she will be a great mom and she has me for support. Things are getting better.
Me: SHE IS 14 AVERY! SHE THREW A TANTRUM AND WRECKED YOUR HOUSE LAST WEEK BECAUSE YOU WOULDNT GIVE HER SOME MONEY FOR CHRIST SAKE.
Av: everyone makes mistakes so don't act like you're perfect lou
Me: this is the biggest mistake you're making. Does the boys parents know he is there??
Av: that's none of your concern
Me: its their concern and I will be contacting them.
Av: don't message me anymore.
Then a few hours later her dd wrote on fb: "you're only young once, so fuck it!"
My dd commented "yep and you're throwing away your youth, congrats!"
I have called the boys parents and cps.
Cps did investigate and river (my friends dd) has been placed in temporary custody of her grandparents. My friend assaulted the case worker and has been arrested. She rang me to make bail for her and I refused. I told her unless she gets the help she needs, I will not make life easy for her.
The boys parents have contacted the police because my friend left threatening messages on the parents phones AND the boys. I'm not sure what will happen now, but honestly I'm glad how it has turned out.
I love my friend, but like I said before, she isn't mentally stable right now.