My niece got her first job recently, that was the topic at a family get together. Everyone was proud of her then somehow the talk shifted towards us, my moms kids, and how we're all hard workers. Well my mom singled me out saying that yes, all her kids are hard workers except me. I'm the lazy one because I don't work. I'm a sahm. Mind you, of my three 3 sisters, I'm the only who is raising my kids WITHOUT any of her help. My mom was quick to offer them babysitting, even had 3 of my nieces living with her for some time so my sisters could work. By the time I had my kids, my mom was tired of watching kids. Completely understandable but I find it very crappy of her to describe me as the lazy one. I brushed it off but deep inside, I kind of resent her for it. Especially since she, at one point was a sahm herself.
Would you have felt hurt as well? I hope not being overly sensitive.