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You shouldn't have a baby

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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My friend just told me she is ttc with her boyfriend. I said that was great, but I really don't think she should be. Here's why:

  • Her boyfriend has been trying to propose for over a year but he is too scared of her dad.
  • She thinks she can have a big fancy wedding right after baby is born. She hasn't even talked to bf about a wedding.
  • A few months ago she told me she wanted to finish school before she had kids. She isn't even in school right now. I think she's going to resent it.
  • She works two full time jobs and somehow never has any money. Unless she's at a bar.
  • She's had multiple tumors and they keep finding new ones. 
  • She does not react well to anesthesia. She almost died twice during surgery. What if something goes wrong during labor?
  • Her boyfriend doesn't have a facebook. He has no idea how much she flirts with one specific guy.
  • When she met her bf, he already had a house. In a town she hates and he loves.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 27, 2014 at 1:41 AM
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ermka
by Platinum Member on Feb. 27, 2014 at 1:42 AM
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And.... not your business. But kudos on being polite to her.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 27, 2014 at 1:44 AM

Sure she would love to know you are plastering her business over social media

nelliesmommy
by on Feb. 27, 2014 at 1:46 AM
Mind your business.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 27, 2014 at 1:47 AM

I'm being conservative compared to what she posts.

Quoting Anonymous:

Sure she would love to know you are plastering her business over social media


crumpy_gat
by No. on Feb. 27, 2014 at 1:48 AM
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You should present your lovely bulleted report and see if you can dissuade her. Let us know if it works.
Shadowed_Star
by Neko‚̧Wolf on Feb. 27, 2014 at 1:49 AM
...... well good luck to them and THAT fantacy life
yummypeaches
by Gold Member on Feb. 27, 2014 at 1:50 AM

Have you thought about making her a powerpoint presentation?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 27, 2014 at 1:51 AM

ummm wow.. who died a made you TTC Police? not your body, not your choice and not your life

drsmith94
by Gold Member on Feb. 27, 2014 at 1:53 AM
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Have you told her how you feel? It's her business and her choice but I think these are concerns you should voice to her as her friend. Maybe she hasn't really thought it through and is being spontaneous or maybe she has thought it through and can put some of your worries at ease
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 27, 2014 at 1:56 AM
Doesn't sound like anything to be concerned about... No one is perfect and I think she will be fine.
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