She asked me to stop being his friend because she thinks we're sleeping together.... (UPDATE) Another update, Yet another one
I have a guy friend, Kyle, we've been friends since birth, our parents are best friends. He is my best friend. We do have a strange relationship, we have slept together countless times, WHEN WE WERE BOTH SINGLE! I would never dream of doing anything inappropriate while he's in a relationship with somebody else.
Well he came over to my house last night, and stayed, we had a few drinks, he didn't feel safe to drive so he crashed at my place... No big deal. Well he's still sleeping on my couch when I get a text from his new girlfriend asking me to back off...
I feel like, no, if he cared that much about the relationship with this girl he would say something to me. You know? I'm going to talk to him when he wakes up about it. If he really feels for this chick then he should back up from me. If not, then he needs to tell her to either deal or leave. I don't want to loose my best friend because some girl is insecure.
What should I say to him? Would you end a life long friendship over a girl that's only been around a few months (3 to be exact)
So when he woke up I told him what his girlfriend said, he laughed and said "well there goes another one" I asked him why and he said because I was the most important... I told him that's not how it should be, he said he couldn't help how he felt. I asked him if he was in love with me, and he said yes. So I told him that he needed to break up with her and that he needed to take a break from me... He looked sad and told me he didn't want to loose me over this, that he would rather be my friend than nothing at, I really didn't know what to say so I told him to call me after he talked to Rene.
So I called him back after I missed his call and told him that I did not have romantic feelings for him because we do not have a romantic relationship, that we needed to move on from each other so he could get over me. He told me that that there was no way he would ever get over me, he's loved me since he was 6... -_- I said then our friendship is over. He told me that he is perfect for me and that I am perfect for him. I told him no we are not because I don't want to be with a friend and just have sex. I want a real relationship and we can not have that together. He said he would prove that he could be who I want...
So we'll see how it goes. I told him we are no longer going to be seeing each other as much and that we need to back away from each other.. It's time to move on. So No where in any of that did I "string him along" I told him that I would not be returning his phone calls, texts or facebook messages until he is over me.
I called him and told him that I would give him a chance, so we're going out tonight. We'll see what happens!