First baby, how did you tell your husband? How did he react?
When I was at work, my husband found out first, then he kept it to himself, until they told me too. We were both very excited.
I wasn't married and I was in a rebound relationship, I just straight told him, he didn't take it good at all. He got offended when I told him that he could walk away and I would never seek child support, but then a couple of days later offered to pay for an abortion. Obviously the relationship did not last long. Years later we are decent friends, me and his now exwife are even better friends (she came later) and his current gf just friended me on facebook. My child has a massive loving family and it all turned out so much better than I could have originally hoped for. It did take a lot of patience though and me dealing with bullshit that I technically did not have to.
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